Marriage Preparation
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We are excited about your decision to plan and prepare for your future together. Marriage preparation can help the two of you recognize and enhance your strengths, clarify your expectations for marriage, learn and practice communication skills, improve your conflict resolution skills, and develop more emotional and sexual intimacy. Most couples can create and maintain a strong relationship by developing healthy relationship habits, prioritizing their relationship and ongoing efforts to make their relationship worth their commitment to it. It is unfortunate that up to fifty percent of marriages end in divorce. And of those who stay together, only 50% report being happily married. This could be taken to mean that only 1/4 of married couples consider themselves happily married.
This course was designed to help you explore all areas of your relationship, strengthen the foundation of your relationship and create a lasting meaningful marriage. Preparing for your marriage can help you improve your chances of having a happy, successful marriage. There is evidence to indicate that couples who increase their positivity, learn to resolve conflict, prioritize their marriage, and avoid relationship traps, are able to increase their satisfaction and staying power.
Welcome to Marriage Preparation
Marital Satisfaction Factors
Predicting Marriage Satisfaction Survey
Predicting Marital Satisfaction
Red Flags May Indicate a Less Than Healthy Relationship
What if My Behavior Could be a Red Flag
Shared Values, Priorities & Commitment
What are Your Values and Priorities?
What If Your Values, Priorities, and Commitment Don't Match?
Marriage Prep Quiz 1
Beliefs About Marriage
Importance of Vision
Ideal Marriage
Discussion - Things To Consider
Vision Quest
Dealing With Differences
Arranging the Bouquet
Emotional Maturity Exercise
Emotional Immaturity/Maturity
Strong Healthy Relationships
Characteristics of Emotional Adults
Strong Relationships Are Made of Two Emotional Adults
Connecting With Your Parrtner
Miscommunication
Sharing
Be Congruent
How Well Do You Know Each Other
Am I a Good Listener?
Is My Partner a Good Listener?
Active Listening
Active to Compassionate Listening
Connecting
Marriage Prep Quiz 2
Fear and Conflict
Healthy Approach to Conflict
Conflict Resolution Exercises
More Conflict Resolution Exercises
Three Principles for Facing Problems
Healthy Boundaries
Claiming Boundaries
Permission to Say No
Coping with Criticism
Build Bridges Instead of Walls
Marriage Prep Quiz 3
Intimacy Vs. Sex
Building Adoration
Making Love All The Time
Let's Talk About Sex
Barriers to Sexual Intimacy
Be Still
The Power of the Mind
The Relaxation Response
Now What?
Be Still Experiments
Finances
Finance Decisions Discussion
Family and Friends
Family-of-Origin
Getting Along
Sticking to it
Wedding Mistakes and How to Avoid Them (pdf)
This course was created by Susan Derry, a relationship expert and master therapeutic counsellor who has been married for over 40 years. She has extensive knowledge from her own experience, growing her relationship, as well as 20 years of experience counseling couples. She has developed this course for couples preparing for marriage. The course is designed to help you learn more about your relationship and each other and learn how to create the elements of a satisfying and lasting marriage. All the best to you as you work to build a healthy future together!